Stephen Covey (8th Habit, p42) was profoundly changed after he read the following quote atrributed to Viktor E. Frankl.
"Between stimulus and response there is a space.
In that space lies our freedom and power to choose our response.
In those choices lie our growth and our happiness."
He followed it with a quote from R.D. Laing where he says our failure to notice this space kills our ability to change.
The range of what we think and do is limited by what we fail to notice. And because we fail to notice that we fail to notice, there is little we can do to change; until we notice how failing to notice shapes our thoughts and deeds.
Jamie Sams (
Sacred Path Cards, p323) says that
"our Sacred Space means that you consider your body, feelings, and possessions sacred and will not allow others to abuse them. ... If you allow others to be destructive in our Savred Space, on some level you don't have the guts to be disliked. It is not important to be liked by others, but it is important to be able to live with yourself. Happiness begins within.
(You need your Sacred Space to know what is true for you and what you need to do.)
Choice and decision making requires that you be informed.
See
Stimulus->Response
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